Dolltime's blog

We've all done it haven't we! Telling lies in bed or, to put it another way, 'Lying about sex'.

"Yes, OMG, yes, yes, yes ohhh, yes" - God I wish he'd hurry up and finish so I can get some sleep (about 70% of women fake orgasm with penile intercourse alone).

"Of course I Love you" -  I've got my dick inside you haven't I. (A very common response from men to ensure a fuck or reassure a partner during a fuck).

"Yes it was fantastic for me too" - no, it was pretty darn average actually, but I don't want to hurt your feelings, maybe next time ... if there is a next time.

Sex should be a time when one can shed barriers, both physically and emotionally, and just be totally open - ideally - but in reality our inhibitions, the imbalance of the sexes or a certain element of fear (insecurity) get the better of us and we lie about sex .....

It's expensive, there's not much of it and it's not used that often. So what is the allure of Lingerie? Following on from last month blog about nudity, which is not really about sex, comfort certainly and perhaps raw sex, but with just a little covering of fancy lingerie and suddenly it's all about sensuality, eroticism, romance and sex.

Here are some of the elements that may make lingerie so enticing- perhaps you can think of some more .....

It feels wonderful to swim in the Nude - so smooth, nice to sleep Naked - so cosy, and being 'Starkers' in the comfort of ones own home & garden - so cool and liberating. Given how good Nudity feels, not to mention natural, it's a wonder there are not more nudist camps, nudest beaches and even nudest Towns or Suburbs - that would be great (climate and weather permitting). Yet we hide our nudity to an extent that is ridiculous and heaven forbid if someone should see us, even if ever so briefly - Shock Horror! Even among friends and family nudity is one of the great Taboos.

It is just so hectic at the moment with the contract of our home gone under the hammer and all the packing and discarding as we downsize to somewhere yet to be determined (hours and days on the net looking). And it seems half the boxes belong to the 'Girls'. 

Haven't done any photos for a while but had this pic, not posted before, for just such a month when we have been too busy.

Checking out the lyrics I came across this bit of dross ......