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Slut Phobia.

It's a well known double standard. Women are more often than not labelled 'Sluts' for being sexually liberal while promiscuous men receive admiration and kudos.

Documentary film maker Sunny Bergman globetrots from San Francisco to Amsterdam with her portable confession tent-chamber to speak with passers-by about sex. The intimate set-up of air mattress and camera works a Freudian treat as people readily reveal eyebrow-raising details about their sexual experiences, fantasies and anxieties. Typical of the guys thoughts "If she has slept with more than 10 guys she's a Slut, if 35, oh boy that is disgusting". One can only ponder 'Why is it so"?

Many women feel pressured into restraining their sexual activities for fear of being labeled a ‘slut’. Simultaneously, many men, especially in their younger years, feel pressured to have as much sex as possible and with the most desirable mates (read: attractive females) as possible.

What is Normal?

It takes a mere intake of 10mg of vitamin C to avoid Scurvy. That is 1/10th of a single water droplet daily or one solitary drop every ten days, and makes the difference between illness leading to death or a healthy life. The Inuit, with a diet almost devoid of plants, get enough Vitamin C from raw fish, the organs of marine mammals and muktuk, the skin of the beluga whale. We are, if nothing else, made up of combinations atoms & molecules and how these act and interact gives who we are - and each and every one of us are different.

She's No Angel

As we approach Christmas 2014 I thought to do a piece on Miraculous Births in Mythology. You know the sort of thing, Krishna (India 1000 years BC) when the divine Vishnu descended into Devaki and was born as her son. Horus (Egypt 2000BC) born to Isis from the reassembled parts of Osiris and becoming the 'light' against the evil Set. Buddha (2500BC) when Queen Maya was whisked up into the mountains by angels and attended to by a magnificent white bull Elephant. Zoroaster (Iran 1200BC) whose mother was impregnated by a shaft of light & who reconciled between good and evil. Mithra (Persia 600BC) born from a rock by a lightburst from heaven to become the 'light of the world' and mediator between heaven and Earth. Lao-tse (China 500BC) conceived when his mother gazed upon a falling star and founded Taoism. Oh, and so many, many more, Jesus for example, born of a virgin.

But it all got too complicated and messy with so many translated variations and intertwining stories (Like Chinses Whispers) I gave up. Yet there were amazing similarities between all of them. As for me, if you have read my blog 'Who's Your Daddy' I am simply thinking about all the excuses women may have come up with over the eons to explain their unexpected pregnancies. Visitations from Zeus was very popular and then there was  "It's not my fault. I was visited by Angels" - sounds pretty good to me. But, speaking of Angels .... 

Anyhow, instead I decided to do slideshow of Natasha ...

The PORN Supremacy.

A few years ago it was claimed that 37% (& more) of the internet was Porn. The figures, based on some very spurious analysis of selected website clicks and extrapolation, excited the religious, interested Governments and oft continue to be quoted in the media for shock & awe. In actual fact more reliable research reveals that only about 4% of the web is Porn and around 14% of web users regularly access it. But as there are so many unsought interconnections which pop up on Porn sites, duplication of content and other factors, the truth is, nobody really knows exactly how much of the internet is Porn. But, like the Universe, even less than 5% of it is still a hell of a lot.

Immersing into Porn over the past month for research (well that's my excuse anyway lol) I found,...

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