OK, so you’ve made it through those first hurdles—she noticed you. You got her number, picked up the thousand pound phone to invite her out, and made it through the first date. Now that you’ve gotten her attention, how can you keep it? These tips will make you stand out from the rest so she’ll keep noticing you.
Get Noticed Even When You Aren’t With Her
Make sure you’re always on her mind by letting her know she’s on yours. While you can never go wrong with flowers, they may be a little over the top for daily winks. Utilize apps like Instagram and Snapchat to send her pictures of things that remind you of her (no it’s not just for sexy selfies). Seriously, women love Snapchat. It’s a fun way to let her know you’re thinking about her and flirt a little.
Get Noticed For Being a Gentleman
This should go without saying, but be polite to everyone. Chances are if you’re berating the barista for screwing up your latte, you’ll be yelling at her over petty issues down the line. She’ll make note of this, no matter how kind and gentle you are with her now. Another example—if you’re picking her up, don’t drive like an asshole. This should also go without saying, but many guys think this excites women. How she’ll really interpret this is look out. This guy is a risk-taker and will put you in harm’s way to catch a thrill. Instead, use this as an opportunity to demonstrate your good qualities. So go ahead and let that guy over, it’s not a race.
