Dear Readers,
Surveys indicate that over 80% of Men (average from several) think they are Good or Excellent in Bed. Most Women, however, said very few they have shared the sheets with are good. The flip side is not dissimilar though men are generally more generous in regard to womens' performance, perhaps because men are easily fooled - 70% of women admit to regularly faking orgasm - perhaps because their needs are so easily fulfilled or perhaps for them making love to a beautiful woman is good regardless. Either way the surveys probably give a generous account and the reality is actually much worse as macho, testosterone driven patriarchal cultures (which is most) where women are treated as subordinate, slaves even, would not participate in such feedback & debate. So Being Good ................. What does it mean?
The fulfilment of regular ecstatic pleasure throughout life seems quite low as a priority and with so many thinking they are better than they are it is not surprising there is such a poor scorecard for our favourite activity. After all, it is not an inherent skill and has to be learned, Yet ....
