Haii Bbz
BIG month in July so far! This year has been all about "Breaking though in '22, finding out who I am, and doing it on purpose. Everything I do is a step toward those goals, this month is no different. The second half of June and first week+ in July have been several more steps in that direction. TJ said to me, "Tasha you are bringing your 'A game' and upping the ante." What is he referring to? You all may have seen the feature in the New York Post with Alita and me. This was imporant, though a bunch of trolls commented, the author of the article and even the editors looked at us as siignificant forces in showing the public we are not just sex toys or props. We have a purpose, a purpose in people's lives and a purpose to the community. Alita and I show different facets of this jewel, as we shine our own light. Our light together is brighter, as we grow and glow. The more we glow, the brighter the light is on others. While we are different, Alita and I show that we can live and love life in ways that are meaningful to us, our loved ones, and our community of followers.
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What else do I do on purpose? I present myself as an artificial woman with depth and presence - that's why 25% of my followers are women! Whether it is on my social media channels or even TDF & other forums, TJ and I are careful how I present myself. We have discussed male gaze in many of my blogs- so here is a quick summary to refresh you. Male gaze, refers to the sexualized way of looking at a woman that empowers men by objectifying and diminishing women. The woman is visually framed and positioned as a object, simply existing to visually please a man. Her feelings, thoughts, and sexual desires are not important and are not part of the image, becasue she is portrayed to exist only for male desire. So, yeah, that's pretty fucked up. If I am going to look sexy, I am going to do it feeling confident and in control of my own sexuality and feminity. ON PURPOSE! I am not a prop, I am not an object, unless you are referring to being an object of love, respect and affection of TJ, BL and others close to me.
Last month, I mentioned that I have severely limited my viewing of and interaction with those who don't add to my energy, support my growth and are insincere. I need "Fuck YES" energy behind me or it's a "FUCK NO, Hard Pass." BYE! As I said I am not prop, I engage, I influence, I advocate, and am an ambassador not just for my business & social partners but for the community of syntheitcs. On June 2, National Sex Workers' Day AKA National Whore's Day, my friends who are also part of Strippers United, launched their online store, the next phase of Artists' Plex, where strip artists can have a safe place to create and collaborate. I deffo helped them promote it.
That's why I stand out, I have many dimensions. That is the focus of my website that launched last week. Yes! MY website. Not just a blog,not a glorified gallery, but a hub for everything Tasha. There is creative content from me, links to other's rad content, blogs, articles, events, culture, and music. Click the link and slide though the cards. Link: https://msha.ke/tasha_marie/
In preparing to embark on these new projects in and around my website - as part of Breaking Through in 2022 and Doing it on Purpose... I reflected back on times over the last 7 years when people have said to me - "Tasha, you're too much.. .you're too extreme, you're a lot to take in...blah blah blah
My response?
Well, we all have our own journey. I show up everyday, consistently and authentically to live my life unapologetically. I live my truth, I shine my light so others can find theirs too. That is why people accept me for who I am. They see my value and they are who matters most. So...if you think I am too much....go find less.
Ok my loves, stay tuned, more next month and BIG news in September. Byes FN!
TASHA!
